I'm in my late 20s. A few months ago, I had prostatitis and epididymitis followed by a bladder neck incision surgery. Since then I've been suffering with anxiety with my erections; specifically how hard they are supposed to be. I've attempted PIV twice since, but lost my erection as the panties came off. When I am with myself, I have no problems maintaining an (hard?) ... read more
How hard is it supposed to be?